1 ~ Most Important Question
During my second month of nursing school, our professor gave us
a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through
the
questions, until I read the last one: "What is the first name of
the woman
who cleans the school?" Surely this was some kind of joke.
I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall,
dark-haired
and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper,
leaving the last question blank.
Before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count
toward our quiz grade. "Absolutely," said the professor. "In
your careers
you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention
and care, even if all you do is smile and say 'hello'. "I've
never forgotten
that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.
2 ~ Pickup in the Rain
One night, at 11:30 PM, an older African American woman was standing
on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rain storm.
Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride.
Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white
man
stopped to help her - generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s.
The
man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxi
cab.
She seemed to be in a big hurry! She wrote down his address, thanked him
and
drove away.
Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise,
a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was
attached.
It read: "Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other
night.
The rain drenched not only my clothes but my spirits. Then you came
along.
Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just
before
he passed away. God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving
others."
Sincerely,
Mrs. Nat King Cole
3 ~ Always
remember those who serve
In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10 year old boy
entered
a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of
water in front of him.
"How much is an ice cream sundae?"
"Fifty cents," replied the waitress. The little boy pulled his hand out
of his pocket and
studied a number of coins in it. "How much is a dish of plain ice
cream?" he inquired.
Some people were now waiting for a table and the waitress was a bit impatient.
"Thirty-five cents," she said brusquely. The little boy again counted the
coins. "I'll
have the plain ice cream," he said. The waitress brought the ice
cream, put the bill on
the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the
cashier and departed.
When the waitress came back, she began wiping down the table and then swallowed
hard
at what she saw.
There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies
- her tip.
4 ~ The
Obstacle in Our Path
In ancient times, a king had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid
himself
and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king's
wealthiest
merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly
blamed the
king for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting
the stone out
of the way. Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. On
approaching the
boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to
the side of the road.
After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. As the peasant
picked up his load of
vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had
been. The purse
contained many gold coins and a note from the king indicating that the
gold was for the person
who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many
others never
understand. Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve one's condition.
5 ~ Giving Blood
Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at Stanford Hospital, I got
to know a little
girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare and serious disease. Her only
chance of recovery
appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had
miraculously survived
the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat he illness.
The doctor
explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the boy if he
would be willing to give his
blood to his sister.
I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying,
"Yes, I'll do
it if it will save Liz."
As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled,
as we all did, seeing
the color returning to her cheeks. Then his face grew pale and his smile
faded. He looked up at
the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, "Will I start to die
right away? "Being young, the
boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give
his sister all of his blood.
Attitude, after all, is everything. You have 2 choices now
1. Say 'Hey that's cool and goes about your business, or
2. Copy it and send it to people you care about.
Hope you will choose No. 2.